I was recently asked for a short response to ‘What would your top 3 church planting tips be?’ - the below answer took into account the person asking, our relationship and their setting. Below is what came to mind immediately…what would you say?
PERSONAL
1) Be Real
People are attracted to authenticity
It is exhausting not to be
If you are not, you’ll need to keep up the show to keep people
People follow someone who is real before someone whom is right (Craig Groeschell)
2) Be Connected
apostolic fathering
brothers
movement/network
3) Be at peace
God is Sovereign you’re not
Jesus is building his church
His yoke is easy
His kingdom is increasing
He pursues people
He has people in your city
He called you
PRACTICAL
1) Prepare / Structure for growth ahead of time
leadership
website / database
serving expectations and excellence
But like a Swan...people experience the serene floating on calm waters (the fruit of the structuring), but you are working hard beneath the surface.
2) Prioritise eldership/leadership
something is left ‘unfinished’ until that’s in place - Titus (brings security)
3) Pursue Partnership
mainly with apostolic/churches in your network for support/sensing
STRATEGIC
1) Focus on developing culture
above quantity, appearance, quick fix
tell stories
structure calendar for the outworking of mission and community
2) Build deep community but always talk mission
Community on mission
the two are not mutually exclusive but rather mission is inevitable fruit of authentic gospel community - and community the means of discipleship.
3) Connect your People apostolically
invest in getting guest speakers
Invest in taking them to conferences, telling stories, road trips
Connect them relationally to the ‘bigger picture’ = ownership
4) Work hard, rest deeply, play well
Embrace seasons
Don’t fear lulls/holidays,
Enjoy drinks/meals with leaders in your church and friends
Build into budget
Enjoy journey
—> If I had to choose just 3
1) Be real
2) Structure ahead
3) Focus on culture